Now

"Hello?"

"Hey Dij. Do me a favor and go to your front door."

"Cap..." I begin, feeling the still-too-unfamiliar start of a smile (this smile, the one reserved solely for him) begin to spread over my face.

"Just do it." 

I walk to my front door expectantly, having already done this dance a few times since coming home from my Labor Day weekend in Jersey. 

"Do you see anything yet?"

"Not yet."

"There should be an Amazon truck at the corner. Is it there?"

"Cap..."

"Do you see it?"

"Yes."

"Okay, call me back after it's been delivered." 

"Cap..."

"Bye Dij, call me when you get it." 

Click.

This is what it's like now.

Phone calls and text messages and Marco Polos all day long.

Fun surprises via Amazon.

He is sweet and funny and raunchy and fucking brilliant.

I NEVER saw this coming but...

I really like him a lot.

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